Friday, July 11, 2008

近来有人曾经这样问过我

有人曾经问过我:“我有权利自毁自个儿的生命吗?”
回答:“您无权。身体受之父母。法律,神明不应许。”
 
那人又问:“我无信仰,何来需要与何等神明交待。”
回答:“无论有何信仰或无信仰,生体受之父母, 法律, 宗教不应许自毁。我们在世上冥冥中,有一股比人更高尚的力量是这宇宙主宰着, 我们都需要为自个儿的生命负责到生命的尽头到底。”

那人又问:“那如果我自毁了,你会如何?”
回答:“我的世界会停顿下来,我会哭得很惨,我会非常非常痛心,我会非常的难过。我的心会成冬天,下场大雪。眼泪会流成河, 眼泪会结成冰。”

哪人又问:“为何啊?我跟您不过见过几次面而已。何来那莫伤心呢?”
回答:“只所以会难过,会心痛因为现在我们已相识了成了朋友。”


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Friday, July 4, 2008

Article.:The Process of Lettin Go-A Module in Death & conscious Dying

The following is the cycle of letting go. Many of time, we went through this in life yet many might not be conscious about the cycle.

Enjoy reading and analysing:





If you are facing challenges in life, do not lose heart. There are purposes of any process in life which may be seemed so impossible that is helping, moulding, building you to be a better woman or a better man.

We welcome your email or your call when you see no way out. May your life be enriched and blessed during any so call "dark" journey for certain individual. REMEBER GIVES THANKS in LIFE. DO NOT WORRY FOR LIFE AS IT DOES NOT ADD ANY HOURS TO IT. GIVE THANKS AND LIFE WILL TAKE CARE OF ITSELF.

BE BLESSED!

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Article:Connection

What connection and how do I connect?

Connection mean bonding with people in meaningful relationships in personal or business.


When connection is "disconnected" in relationship, people get divorce, people get seperated, two person lost the objectives in life once shared, broken dreams & broken love seemed hard to mend. Just like lying on the same bed yet seemed ocean or river apart.

People felt insecure, anxious and the whole system just stagnant there. People reacted differently, some response to call of course of nature, yet nothing happened and the once shared effections, connection of both parties diminished. Some done otherwise to fulfill his/her needs emotionally, cognitively yet nothing seemed to be workable no matter how hard they try. Some people ask why? Some people say life is like that, some sterotype their partners, some gave up totally. Would anyone ask why? Do we remember our first love? First love in relationship, "First love" when one meet his/her mate? First love of our job and the list goes on & on.

How are we going to rekindle that first love in our life again? Remember the beautiful moment, we created for ourselves & others, remember how passionate we were, the exploding energy in us, the passion of our life? The paradigm shift of our mindset that there is nothing impossible for us to create?

Index a-i would be something useful if anyone would try it.

Index.

a. Building Better & Meaningful Relationship
b. Educational & Nurturing
c. Accpeting the flaws & strength of others
d. Being able to share with an open heart & mind
e. Being sensitive to the partner
f. Bringing oneself down to others' level
g. Bringing others to the next level
h. Recovery Management in relationship: Quick for recovery to fix issues
i. Non Strerotypying


Wishing you plenty of love, plenty of peace & all good things in life. Hope you enjoy meaningful relationship & puting them to action.


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Thursday, July 3, 2008

Case Studies-Decision Making

Some make decision quick and some do not make decision well. Life is alway a choice, to do or not to do.

Some live to please others, some live to please self and do not care about others, some live to have balance in self & others, some live not knowing what to do as they have tried so hard to please oneself at the same times.

Some came to term with their decision, some struggled with their decision, some live to the fate of life. In life, there are nothing to leave to the fate of life as life is in each iondiviual to create, to live in accordance to what the individual wants.

Many of times, we do what to make other please with us and did not attend to the needs of ourselves. Therefore, there is a break in connection of self and reality that causes the imbalance; that is why some ended up distraught, some in anger & frustration, some even spiral down the stair of depression.

Connection is important in decision making, to fulfil the needs of individual self at many times are essential for the wellness of emotionals, cognitive part of a person.


Recently, I have a case regarding HR matter. The individual is a friend who could not make up the decision as to or not to submit to others' unreasonable request. This individual came to me to seek opinions and after then still wasn't sure whether to persue the matter or not.

After a week, this individual stated that in order to leave the copany with a peacemind mind and felt happy with the decision, he/she would submit a resignation letter as requested by the company.

Another week passed, I received sms stating what should she/he do, should she/he seek help with her MP. I asked her what she/he really wanted to do with her/his case, if she/he has decided to let go and as mentioned she/he was happy with the decision. There were internal conflict within her/him, the current situation, emotion reasonace of the past at work surfaced that this individual felt that she/he should set some precedence in this company for other new co-colleagues and others she/he has work with for almost a decade. She/he struggled to and fro of what to do and letting the whole matter come to a closure. This individual does not sleep well, eat well and affected her biologically.

It was good for this individual to seek others' opinion pertaining to what she should do who is experienced in HR matter. That friend of the individual spoke on the same ground as me. In the end, the individual finally made up the decision not to submit the resignation letter since the company wanted that individual to leave the company after a good ten years working for them after gaining support from her/his family, friends including me as she/he mentioned.

Our principle in Hypnosis Training Asia does not imply our experiences, our values or our beliefs on any individual cases. We help, assist, explore what what the individual is comfortable or by going beyond their comfort zone in their own timing and wants to meet their needs.


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Connection to The World of Opportunity

Connection to the world of opportunity

Monday, June 30, 2008

Articles: What can be done? Who can help me?

There are cases which I have handled before when people ask what can be done and who can help me?


What is effecting the indidvidual when this person choose to keep within himself or herself. The individual would either go one way(1) or the other(2). One way(1): Became more and more depressed, unhappy with life. That will affect a person socially, biologically & sometime psychologically.

The other way(2):More positive and move on. Get knowledge and put on the armour to deal with life challenges with heart of faith, heart of boldness, heart of consistency in what they wanted to move forward to etc.

Lesson in life: The tougest it goes make a person stronger. Everything a person went through has a purpose. Gives Thanks in all situations, fill love and hope within SELF.SEE the different.


Life will take care of itself when one share, mind storming with others and plan what will be the best for himself/herself to improve life situation.

There are many out there thought that life is such a suffering to handle so much issues and challenges in life at one instant. Resilence is the key but at times need to sharing...the balancing act on resilence and being able to share is important in any individual going through tough times in life. To others may not be tough, to this individual it drained off their energy, it is heartaches for him or her.

Remember...the key of communication of any life challenges does good for the soul.


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